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I approached Taurus Rainbow Lingerie after coming across their Facebook page and drooling over their lovely products. I love that they focus on empowering plus size women and helping us feel sexy! I think that the more confidence you exude, the sexier you feel and the more your partner will be attracted to you!

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By maymay

My friend over at Kink In Exile, has recently posted a fantastic list of 8 things dominant women want. The list is so spot-on that I think it is a must-read regardless of whether you are in or are looking for a kinky relationship or not—or even if you’re not even “into all this kink stuff.”

I’ve been struggling to write more in this space lately. I want to, but between having to deal with the stress of moving to New York City from Sydney in less than two weeks and, more recently, the stress of losing my relationship with (Sara) Eileen, most kinds of words seem beyond me right now. Naturally, reading over a list of the things dominant women want during this time triggers a certain amount of introspection.

Kink in Exile’s list is so good, actually, if it were not unspeakably lazy of me I would want to copy it in its entirety for a post of my own. Instead of plagiarism, however, here’s a companion list of the things that submissive men want from a dominant partner that I think might be helpful. Astute readers of both my post and hers will note how similar these two lists actually are in content if not in voice. That, of course, is no coincidence.

For the sake of clarity, I’ll preface this list with an explicit remark about how it’s not intended to reflect anything other than a generic exploration into what I believe submissive men want from dominant partners, and should therefore not be interpreted without salting to your own taste, so to speak. I’d also like to acknowledge the excellent pre-publication input I received on this post by Kink in Exile herself, ironrose, as well as a few more friends. Thank you all for your thoughts.

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by Sophie Avett

Merry met oh-wicked-ones,

I’m Sophie. I write craptastic books. And I’m a kinky. Let’s talk about what we all care about, shall we?

What is hotwife/cuckholding?

You know, I’m kind of surprised whenever this comes up. No, really. If you break this puppy out in the middle of Thanksgiving dinner—who are you?! And why the hell aren’t you sitting next to me?!

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“Would you have any suggestions for therapy for a male submissive that was involved in an abusive relationship? He can’t afford therapy and there are no sliding scale kink aware therapists in his area. Just wondering if you might know of any online resources.”

Check out our sister page: The Safe Submissive There are several of resources on that page as well as on our website under Abuse Resources: http://asibdsm.com/bdsm-resources/abuse-bdsm-resources/

 

 

 

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