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Punishments:  If you’re a caregiver you might have a hard time finding punishments for your little outside of a swat or two. Here is a massive list of punishments for you to use! -Early Bed Time -No Internet/tumblr -No “play/naughty” time (masturbation) -Chores -No netflix -No video games -Take away the paci -No dessert/sweets/pop or Soda […]

Click on photos to view larger versions of this rope bondage tutorial for easier reading. Photo tutorials used with exclusive permissions from Fetish Weekly. Click here to read our Safety Disclaimer. Enjoy our content? Help keep A Submissive’s Initiative™ running by donating!

I identify as Queer. Rather than going into a lengthy explanation about what genderfluid and pansexual means to a curious acquaintance who probably wasn’t expecting a sex ed lesson, I use this much simpler term to label myself for the public. But probably not as most people are used to defining the word. Unless you’re […]

When I first got an email about Orgasmatronics‘ products I was admittedly a little overwhelmed by the X2‘s design (what goes where?!) and fully intrigued by their touch responsive vibrator:  the Ambrosia Vibe (How exactly does that work?!). After a few months of successful advertising they wanted to know if I would be interested in […]

Follow my blog with Bloglovin This is a video Jessica posted on YouTube over two years ago where she discusses whether pain is really necessary in BDSM. We’re preparing to add more videos to our YouTube channel in the next year and we’d really like to hear what topics you would like Jessica to cover, […]

No Shades of Grey A brief guide to what BDSM really is Click here to download the free zip file (840K) including the following formats: Pdf – For any device Mobi – For Kindle e-readers Epub – For any other e-reader device Or read it online as a Pdf No Shades of Grey by Ayzad […]

We’ve gotten all kinds of questions while working at A Submissive’s Initiative, but sometimes it’s not what people don’t know about BDSM, but the BDSM myths people assume are true that really keeps them from learning and growing.

Written By Stella Rae, Filthy Gorgeous Media Reposted with exclusive permission. Imagine being a voyeur as you watch looners being spanked by MILFs who are wearing butt plugs. That would certainly be a sight to feast your eyes on. While many of the kinky fetishes people enjoyed in 2015 usually don’t intertwine in the way […]

A note from ASI: Master/slave dynamics are different than many other relationships within BDSM. Some of these activities may seem extreme but should only be completed between consenting partners. Informed consent (consent with knowledge of the activities and risks involved, also known as RACK) should always be given freely, without coercion or manipulation. If you […]

Written by Ayzad July 10, 2013 Yesterday I had to counsel a young man who – with much embarrassment and pain – confessed he had damaged his own genitals by over-enthusiastically using an electric BDSM toy. I am not a physician, so I could only direct him to a specialist and hope his lesions were […]

A 2005 global survey by Durex found that 36% of Americans have used some form of bondage in their sex lives. That’s about 114 million people who have discovered BDSM at some point in their lives. Do you think that over 100 MILLION people are capable of fitting neatly into either a Dominant or submissive […]

Whenever I see BDSM portrayed in the media they always seem to set the scene with a “big reveal” where the character walks into a dungeon only to be bombarded with whips, chains and a sea of leather. I have to chuckle at these scenes because my personal experience with BDSM has never involved a […]

I’ve talked to a lot of people about BDSM. I can no longer keep count of how many people I’ve discussed bondage and submission with and I love that I get to! But most of the questions I get are from people who have some small understanding of what BDSM is. They understand the basic […]

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