Ball Gags

A Comprehensive Guide to Ball Gags

A lot of you probably aren't into exotic and kinky sex toys that are probably only used by people with a very specific fetish. We’re going to be the first to say that ball gags aren't for everyone and there’s a very good chance that you’d recoil at the mere sentence of your partner wanting to try out ball gags. However, we say give it a shot before you completely turn down the idea of such...

BDSM Basics: Bondage Knots

By LadyJ If you want to explore bondage, you need to have some knowledge of bondage knots. You can accomplish safe and effective bondage just a few knots. In a future post, I will show you more advanced, prettier knots for more “showy” bondage, but first things first. ROPE Choose your rope according to what you are tying. For typing limbs, body harnesses, rope bras, etc, I use 3/8 rope, but...

40+ Bondage Positions

  Reposted from Restrained Elegance with exclusive permissions.   The human body is capable of adopting an almost infinite variety of poses and positions. Some of these poses are awkward, ugly or ungainly- these are inappropriate for a Restrained Elegance slavegirl to adopt, for a Restrained Elegance slavegirl should be alluring, elegant and as beautiful as possible, whether in...
Wraith by Exotic Erotics

Wraith by Exotic Erotics Review

I love to get brand new toys, as I am constantly switching up my sexual tastes to keep things interesting for me in the bedroom, whether I am with a partner or not. Exotic Erotics is one company that always goes above and beyond when it comes to unique sex toys. This is the only company that I know of that can provide me with a complete custom toy to my specifications. I get to pick the colors,...
Vibease

Vibease Review

Vibease is a powerful small toy that is the company's flagship toy, with the same name, distributed in Singapore, San Francisco and China. First, it's a clitoris vibrator, but it's also compatible with the app, making it ideal for long-distance relationships and erotic auditions of audiobooks. I have previously reviewed toys that are compatible with the application, but toys that are compatible...

Submission

Submission is an action of personal strength. To overcome internal resistance the submissive must control their desire or need to maintain personal control in the creation and delivery of all personal decisions. They must overcome the need to express or deliver their personal judgment as the basis for creating, directing and taking self action. They must overcome their desire to ACT defensively...

Choosing the Right Dominant:

You are a submissive. You have read everything you could get your hands on and talked to anyone who would offer advice. Now, it is time to choose your dominant. I can only speak and counsel you regarding a full time 24/7 relationship as that is my only experience, however some of what I have to say can also be applied to part time as well. Choose carefully. Choose wisely. This is your life, your...

Demands vs Expectations

We all know what we want and we all know that, mostly, we'll get some of it and not all of it. Occasionally I talk to people who say they've ticked off every box on their wish list when it comes to a person to share themselves with but, frankly, I treat those people in a similar way to the ones that insist Elvis lives. With great suspicion. It's not that I don't believe there is a perfect partner...

Anticipation of the Dominants Needs

Anticipate: To feel or realize beforehand; foresee: Need: A condition or situation in which something is required or wanted Anticipation of needs is one aspect of submission that my Master expects from me and I do believe that there are many other dominants who expect the same effort. When I went forth and asked a few people what anticipation of needs meant to dominants and how a submissive...

Anticipation of the Dominants Needs Part II

First off, Thank you for asking MoU and myself to help you with your questions. We really appreciate the opportunity to express ourselves to anyone who wishes to know more about us. Next, a warning, you will not find my answer straight away. LOL! Because I feel I need to give you a bit of background information. I also need to start typing away...to get my thoughts going. Then the answers you...

Submission and Jealousy

Jealousy is a negative emotion and can cause a great deal of trouble in a relationship. Jealousy can rip a relationship apart if it gets out of control and jealousy may cause us to lose our partner. Losing them is the very thing we are most afraid of when we are jealous, is it not? We have the right to feel jealous. How we express jealousy is another matter. We do not have the right to control...