A few weeks ago I shared a post on Facebook asking for donations to help a feminist sex shop open in St. Louis. Little did I know that I had a mutual friend with one of the co-owners, Sarah. A few days later Sarah needed help finishing one of the walls of her shop, […]
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I feel like daily tasks and assignments are an under-appreciated aspect of BDSM relationships. For many bottoms keeping a checklist or completing daily assignments is a great way to make sure we are staying on track and meeting our Tops’ standards, giving us a boost of confidence and allowing us to hone our submissive skills. […]
Check out this amazing Map of Non-Monogamy by Franklin Veaux Click on the image for a larger, easier to read version!
By Sam Killerman, It’s Pronounced Metrosexual Note: some definitions here may include words you aren’t familiar with, or have been taught a flawed or incomplete definition for; I’ve likely defined those words somewhere else in the list, but if I missed one bring it up in the comments below. Also, be sure to correct me […]
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An Article Modified for A Submissive’s Initiative By Sir Ronin Payne, on Fetlife as -HouseofPayne Since one of my first sexual experiences was with a girl that was more than a gusher, I have been interested in female ejaculation. There is nothing more flattering than an earful of screaming ecstasy and scratches on my […]
By Tequila Rose If you haven’t heard the name Michael Makai, then you’re either really, really new to the lifestyle or you’ve been living underneath a rock. Makai has made a huge splash in the lifestyle with his amazing books. Seriously, if you haven’t picked up one of his books, I highly suggest you do […]
The cane is probably the implement most associated with Corporal Punishment. There is something very emotive about this traditional, English disciplinary tool. Part of the cane’s mysticism was the ritual and theater associated with its application – which was as much about psychological torment and fear as it was the actual beating. Making the condemned […]
Everywhere we look it’s easy to find resources and material on all different aspects of BDSM relationships–and the play involved within and outside of them. But what about the daily life beyond the collar? Understanding the everyday things involved with being a submissive or slave can help the relationship to reach its potential, and […]