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A note from ASI: Master/slave dynamics are different than many other relationships within BDSM. Some of these activities may seem extreme but should only be completed between consenting partners. Informed consent (consent with knowledge of the activities and risks involved, also known as RACK) should always be given freely, without coercion or manipulation. If you […]

Written by Ayzad July 10, 2013 Yesterday I had to counsel a young man who – with much embarrassment and pain – confessed he had damaged his own genitals by over-enthusiastically using an electric BDSM toy. I am not a physician, so I could only direct him to a specialist and hope his lesions were […]

A 2005 global survey by Durex found that 36% of Americans have used some form of bondage in their sex lives. That’s about 114 million people who have discovered BDSM at some point in their lives. Do you think that over 100 MILLION people are capable of fitting neatly into either a Dominant or submissive […]

Whenever I see BDSM portrayed in the media they always seem to set the scene with a “big reveal” where the character walks into a dungeon only to be bombarded with whips, chains and a sea of leather. I have to chuckle at these scenes because my personal experience with BDSM has never involved a […]

I’ve talked to a lot of people about BDSM. I can no longer keep count of how many people I’ve discussed bondage and submission with and I love that I get to! But most of the questions I get are from people who have some small understanding of what BDSM is. They understand the basic […]

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by Tequila Rose I got the opportunity to read The BDSM Contract Book, which is Michelle Fegatofi’s newest book. Like all of her other books, this one is filled with great and very useful information to those who are interested in including a contract in their relationship. Even though this book isn’t very big, don’t […]

Originally posted as “The Restrained Elegance Lexicon of Slavegirl Positions” Reposted from Restrained Elegance with exclusive permissions. Read Part One: 90+ Freestanding Slave Positions The human body is capable of adopting an almost infinite variety of poses and positions. Some of these poses are awkward, ugly or ungainly- these are inappropriate for a Restrained Elegance […]

Version 1.05 First posted: September 1, 2006 by Ambrosio Dedicated to Mistress Constance of Louisville, KY “History is a pack of lies about events that never happened told by people who weren’t there.” ~ George Santayana C O N T E N T S Preface Wonder Woman Leather’s Military Heritage Table Salt: Leather Six Contrasting […]

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