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Safety is our number one topic here, but how do you know if a person you’ve met really is safe to be with? If you’re new to the kinky lifestyle this first tip might make you sigh heavily, but I promise it’s important. 1.Take Your Time  You probably want to find a partner right away, […]

An article came across my Facebook newsfeed about a fraternity that greeted parents and freshmen on Welcome Week with lovely banners hanging from their balcony. They read “Rowdy and fun. Hope your baby girl is ready for a good time,” “Freshman daughter drop off” and “Go ahead and drop off Mom too.” When I read […]

  For a first time rope bottom, bondage can be overwhelming. You started out thinking it would be as simple as letting a top tie you up, but then you realize it’s actually dangerous and there are *gasp* limits to your own body. That’s ok, we’re here to help you get started with rope bondage […]

In 2012 I started my research on BDSM by typing “Can a submissive initiate a BDSM relationship?” into Google. I found nothing. In fact, I didn’t find much about BDSM online at all. I didn’t know at the time that BDSM was about to explode into mainstream media with the popularity of Fifty Shades of […]

This prayer was written by a male Top and so it uses female pronouns for the submissive. Please feel free to replace “she” for your submissive’s desired pronoun.   My next Sub will be my last. She will be as devoted to me as I am to her. She will trust in my loyalty and […]

The following is an excerpt from two sections of Cuckold Affirmation (version 4.0). You can download the entire document by clicking here. Any questions can be directed to the author at Background A Cuckold Affirmation is designed for couples to hold that are already actively enjoying a cuckold related “lifestyle”. The event should be […]

When I received an email from Brian Whitney to review his book titled Raping the Gods: A Tale of Sex and Madness the title alone had my head swarming with questions.  It seemed to tackle some topics I’m pretty found of and I wanted to know where this story was going. Whitney is a ghostwriter […]

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