Jealousy is a negative emotion and can cause a great deal of trouble in a relationship. Jealousy can rip a relationship apart if it gets out of control and jealousy may cause us to lose our partner. Losing them is the very thing we are most afraid of when we are jealous, is it not? […]
This content was created by Franklin Veaux. The original post can be found at https://www.xeromag.com/fvbdniceguy.html (This page is written to address BDSM for nice guys; there’s an introduction to BDSM for good girls on the Web here.) So you’re a nice guy. You think that people should be treated with respect and courtesy; you […]
To be a Dominant, a true Dominant, is a hard job. Aside from the usual load of daily ‘Domhood’, a Dominant has to read His submissive. This is a very hard thing to do because how is one Man, whom from our submissive eyes is supposed to be this all knowing and in control person […]
by Sophie Avett Merry met oh-wicked-ones, I’m Sophie. I write craptastic books. And I’m a kinky. Let’s talk about what we all care about, shall we? What is hotwife/cuckholding? You know, I’m kind of surprised whenever this comes up. No, really. If you break this puppy out in the middle of Thanksgiving dinner—who are you?! […]
Article by John Pendal, International Mr Leather 2003 – original www.iml2003.com/beef20.htm “I’ve heard many SM players refer to ‘edge play’ but I don’t know what they’re talking about. What is ‘edge play’?” There is no standard definition of ‘edge play’. Its use has varied over time and geographical location. Even a quick search of the […]
During mentoring sessions with new or less-experienced Dommes, when I mention subspace, the reply I often get is, “What is that?”The subspace and aftercare are topics that tops playing in SL are often unaware of. To ensure everyone is safe and happy, however, Dommes need to have a working knowledge of what subspace is, what causes it, how to […]
The term subspace is often used in D/s conversation, for describing the ‘high’ a submissive can feel during a scene. Simply put, the experience of intense pain, and/or pleasure can trigger a nervous system-wide response with a release of chemicals including endorphins, enkephalins, and epinephrine from different areas of your brain. These are the body’s […]