Written by Kayla Lords Not every submissive is in a position to be sexual with their Dominant. Even those who are in long-term loving relationships don’t get to be kinky and sexy all the time. Real life intervenes too often for that. Sometimes the only thing that can help you feel submissive and sustain the […]
To be a Dominant, a true Dominant, is a hard job. Aside from the usual load of daily ‘Domhood’, a Dominant has to read His submissive. This is a very hard thing to do because how is one Man, whom from our submissive eyes is supposed to be this all knowing and in control person […]
By The Artful Dominant A submissive doesn’t come with an instruction manual and there’s no such thing as a perfect dominant. You can read every lifestyle book you can get your hands on, talk to other Doms, and attend lifestyle workshops. Yet you can still be left with a nagging feeling that you don’t always […]
This prayer was written by a male Top and so it uses female pronouns for the submissive. Please feel free to replace “she” for your submissive’s desired pronoun. My next Sub will be my last. She will be as devoted to me as I am to her. She will trust in my loyalty and my […]
“Discipline gives total freedom; it allows you to go beyond your limitations, to break through boundaries and reach the highest goal. The path to discipline will not only save a person’s life, it will also give it meaning. How? By introducing him to deeper joys and deeper longings, by creating a silence in which the […]
My friend over at Kink In Exile, has recently posted a fantastic list of 8 things dominant women want. The list is so spot-on that I think it is a must-read regardless of whether you are in or are looking for a kinky relationship or not—or even if you’re not even “into all this kink stuff.” I’ve […]
Submission is an action of personal strength. To overcome internal resistance the submissive must control their desire or need to maintain personal control in the creation and delivery of all personal decisions. They must overcome the need to express or deliver their personal judgment as the basis for creating, directing and taking self action. They […]
You are a submissive. You have read everything you could get your hands on and talked to anyone who would offer advice. Now, it is time to choose your dominant. I can only speak and counsel you regarding a full time 24/7 relationship as that is my only experience, however some of what I have […]
We all know what we want and we all know that, mostly, we’ll get some of it and not all of it. Occasionally I talk to people who say they’ve ticked off every box on their wish list when it comes to a person to share themselves with but, frankly, I treat those people in […]
Anticipate: To feel or realize beforehand; foresee: Need: A condition or situation in which something is required or wanted Anticipation of needs is one aspect of submission that my Master expects from me and I do believe that there are many other dominants who expect the same effort. When I went forth and asked a […]