10Apr

BDSM Basics: Daily Rules, Tasks and Assignments

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: BDSM Basics Beginner BDSM Information Dominance Submission

I feel like daily tasks and assignments are an under-appreciated aspect of BDSM relationships. For many bottoms keeping a checklist or completing daily assignments is a great way to make sure we are staying on track and meeting our Tops’ standards, giving us a boost of confidence and allowing us to hone our submissive skills. […]

21Dec

The Queer Kink Guide To: Titles for Doms (or What do you call a non-gender-binary Dominant?)

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Beginner BDSM Information Dominance Guest Posts

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Written by queerkink.tumblr.com So, my partner and I do not use titles when we play together, but as pro-dommes we do both use titles professionally, and if you’re the sort of person who enjoys them, well then you should go straight ahead and use them. If you want to be called “El Super King” […]

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26Oct

Path of Service and Mastery: Spiritual Dominance and Submission

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Dominance Guest Posts Spirituality Submission

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Copyright Raven Kaldera, shared with exclusive permission. In this day and age, and especially in this country that I live in, there is a great deal of ambivalent and conflicted feeling about one human being serving another in a formal and negotiated submissive role. Most of us claim to hate the idea of having our […]

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26Sep

A Complete Newbie’s Guide to Seeing Pro-Dommes

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Dominance Guest Posts

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Written by Miss Maya Midnight, shared with exclusive permission.* http://www.mayamidnight.com/ I love popping session-cherry, but first-timers are notoriously flakey, disrespectful and annoying to deal with in the pre-session stage. I know most of these problems are due to ignorance and nervousness rather than plain douchebaggery, so I wrote this guide to help you out. In […]