10Apr

BDSM Basics: Daily Rules, Tasks and Assignments

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: BDSM Basics Beginner BDSM Information Dominance Submission

I feel like daily tasks and assignments are an under-appreciated aspect of BDSM relationships. For many bottoms keeping a checklist or completing daily assignments is a great way to make sure we are staying on track and meeting our Tops’ standards, giving us a boost of confidence and allowing us to hone our submissive skills. […]

21Jan

Beyond the Collar

Posted by: Riley Categories: Beginner BDSM Information General BDSM Information Submission

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Everywhere we look it’s easy to find resources and material on all different aspects of BDSM relationships-and the play involved within and outside of them. But what about the daily life beyond the collar? Understanding the everyday things involved with being a submissive or slave can help the relationship to reach its potential, and […]

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5Dec

90+ Freestanding Slave Positions

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Guest Posts Submission Tutorials

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Originally posted as “The Restrained Elegance Lexicon of Slavegirl Positions” Reposted from Restrained Elegance with exclusive permissions. Please note that while it is written in the style of a pompous 1950’s textbook, the lexicon is something Ariel and I made up as a diverting entertainment for ourselves and for members of the site. It’s written […]

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26Oct

Path of Service and Mastery: Spiritual Dominance and Submission

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Dominance Guest Posts Spirituality Submission

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Copyright Raven Kaldera, shared with exclusive permission. In this day and age, and especially in this country that I live in, there is a great deal of ambivalent and conflicted feeling about one human being serving another in a formal and negotiated submissive role. Most of us claim to hate the idea of having our […]

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20Apr

Being a Submissive

Posted by: asubmissivesinitiative Categories: Beginner BDSM Information General BDSM Information Submission

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By Jessica Cocker BDSM isn’t all about kinky sex. Yeah, that’s certainly a perk to the relationship, but for some.. it’s not even part of the equation! There are so many different types of BDSM dynamics, that there is no way you could try to describe the ultimate BDSM relationship.

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20Apr

Subspace & After Care

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: General BDSM Information Guest Posts Submission

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During mentoring sessions with new or less-experienced Dommes, when I mention subspace, the reply I often get is, “What is that?”The subspace and aftercare are topics that tops playing in SL are often unaware of. To ensure everyone is safe and happy, however, Dommes need to have a working knowledge of what subspace is, what causes […]