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31Dec

Fan Question: Will a Contract Take the Romance out of my D/s Relationship?

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Fan Questions
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  “I am new to being a sub and considering my first actual dom/sub relationship. I have had a similar dynamic once before although it was never labeled as such. This time around my dom is interested in “ownership” which is a new concept to me all together. I don’t know much about bdsm besides […]

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8Apr

Male Abuse Resources

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Fan Questions
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“Would you have any suggestions for therapy for a male submissive that was involved in an abusive relationship? He can’t afford therapy and there are no sliding scale kink aware therapists in his area. Just wondering if you might know of any online resources.” Check out our sister page: The Safe Submissive There are several […]

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10Mar

Public BDSM Titles

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Fan Questions
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“My S.O. and I have been experimenting with light BDSM (Dom/sub, and light bondage), and have really been enjoying it. What are some nicknames/titles we can use that won’t come across as inappropriate or alarming outside of the bedroom. We would like to maintain our Dom/sub roles in our daily lives, without making others uncomfortable. […]

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13Feb

BDSM Educational Books?

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Beginner BDSM Information Fan Questions
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Fan Question: “Please if there is any books that you would be able to suggest i think it could help me a lot I have been slowly learning to deal with it more because i do have some one i truly love beside me but i’ve had a little trouble explaining some of these parts […]

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9Jan

Top 10 FAQ About Getting Involved in the BDSM Community

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Beginner BDSM Information Fan Questions
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Every day at A Submissive’s Initiative™ we get countless messages and emails about how to get involved in BDSM and the community so I’ve decided to put together a handy list of our top 10 FAQ for easy reference.

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16Dec

Multiple Submissives

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Fan Questions
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Fan Question:“Can a master have more than one sub? Or is this just some thing that is frowned upon in the bdsm world ?”There are many Masters that have more than one sub. And also who have subs in varying stages. From consideration, subs in training, full time subs, long distance subs, all the way […]

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1Dec

Encouraging Dominance Outside the Bedroom

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Fan Questions
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Fan Question “How do I get my SO of 5 years to be more dominant OUTSIDE of the bedroom? He is amazing behind closed doors, but that is it. I don’t know if I should do less for him, like maybe leave the house a bit of a mess once in awhile, but I need […]

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6Nov

BDSM and Marriage

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Fan Questions
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Fan Question: “I have been with my husband foe a long time and love him dearly. I have been on a dom/sub relationship before and feel the need to do this again. I have tried several things with hubby but it just doesn’t do anything for him.I feel the need every day to have this […]

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27Sep

Showing Off My Collar?

Posted by: Jessica Cocker Categories: Fan Questions
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“I get collared next week, right before my birthday. I am so excited and I just want to tell everyone ! But it’s a pretty risque subject. A few of my friends know about my BDSM relationship, and my Master has required me to wear my collar and leash around some friends as a punishment. […]

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